Heart to Heart with Hajara – Series 6: Together, We Can Build Healthy Marriages
Heart to Heart with Hajara – Series 6: Together, We Can Build Healthy Marriages “I’m Just Managing.” Is That Really What Marriage Is All About These Days? It's like everybody is now managing in marriage because I hear people say this quite often: “Hajiya, I am just managing oh.” “I am only staying because of the children.” “At this point, I have accepted my fate.” “He is never going to change.” Or… “She is never going to change.” Both men and women are complaining. They are still married. They are still living together. In some cases, they are still doing what couples do behind closed doors. They are still intimate. While in some cases, they live like roommates. But deep down, they are tired. Very tired. They are no longer trying to make the marriage better. They are simply trying to survive it. Some even go into open marriages where each party does as they wish. But then I ask again: Is that what a healthy marriage is supposed to be? Is this what people actually signed up for? Yes...