Friday Sermon: The Seriousness of Divorce in Islam
~~ Mahmud Ashraf
All praise is due to Allah, the Most Merciful, the Most Compassionate. We seek His guidance, forgiveness, and mercy. We bear witness that there is no deity worthy of worship except Allah, and that Muhammad (peace be upon him) is His final messenger.
Dear brothers and sisters in Islam, today I want to address a topic that is both sensitive and significant: divorce. In our modern world, divorce has become increasingly common, and it is essential for us to understand the Islamic perspective on this matter.
Divorce in the Quran:
Allah (SWT) addresses the issue of divorce in several verses of the Quran. One of the most notable verses is found in Surah Al-Baqarah (2:226-227):
> "For those who intend to divorce their wives is a waiting period of three menstrual cycles. And it is not lawful for them to conceal what Allah has created in their wombs if they believe in Allah and the Last Day. And their husbands have more right to take them back in that period if they want reconciliation. And they have rights similar to those [of their husbands] over them in a just manner, and the men are a degree above them. And Allah is Exalted in Might and Wise."
This verse highlights the importance of patience and reflection before making such a significant decision. It emphasizes that divorce should not be taken lightly and that reconciliation should always be sought first.
The Importance of Avoiding Divorce:
Divorce is not just a personal matter; it has far-reaching consequences for families, children, and society as a whole. The Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) said:
> "Of all the lawful things, divorce is the most hated by Allah." (Sunan Abu Dawood)
This hadith underscores the gravity of divorce in Islam. It is a last resort, meant to be avoided whenever possible. The family unit is the cornerstone of our society, and when it breaks down, it can lead to numerous social issues, including emotional distress, financial instability, and the breakdown of community ties.
The Calamity of Divorce:
Divorce can lead to a multitude of calamities, both in this life and the Hereafter. It can cause emotional pain and suffering for both partners, especially when children are involved. Children of divorced parents often face challenges, including feelings of abandonment, confusion, and instability. The Prophet (peace be upon him) emphasized the importance of treating children with kindness and ensuring their well-being.
Moreover, divorce can lead to a cycle of negativity and resentment, affecting not only the individuals involved but also their families and communities. It can create divisions and animosities that last for generations.
Conclusion:
In conclusion, while divorce is permitted in Islam, it is not encouraged. It should be viewed as a last resort after all efforts for reconciliation have been exhausted. We must strive to uphold the sanctity of marriage and work towards resolving conflicts through patience, understanding, and communication.
Let us remember the words of Allah and the teachings of our beloved Prophet (peace be upon him) as we navigate our relationships. May Allah guide us to be patient, compassionate, and understanding in our marriages and help us avoid the calamities that come with divorce.
I urge you all to reflect on your relationships, seek to strengthen them, and always turn to Allah for guidance. May Allah bless our families, protect our marriages, and grant us the wisdom to make the right choices.
Dua:
Let us make a dua for those who are struggling in their marriages, that Allah grants them the strength to overcome their challenges and brings peace and harmony into their lives. Ameen.
Closing:
I ask Allah to forgive us for our shortcomings and to guide us on the straight path. May peace and blessings be upon our Prophet Muhammad, his family, and his companions. Ameen.
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